Censorship among family and friends - Empty Closets - A safe ...

I came out a year ago and now it is just awkward around some family and friends. I have some problems with my family they act all supportive but at the same time they tell me to keep it all on the he Dl.

For example one night it I was having a conversation with my mom and she had the balls to tell me to be quiet because she didn't want her fiance to know. The same thing happens at a "friend" house, I'm a tall guy he has short counters so I was on my knees breaking something up when I made a joke and he hushed me so his gurlfriend in the next room wouldn't hear me.

It's bad enough having to watch my back in the town I live in but now my own family and friends are censoring me. How have some of you dealt with it? I'm used to pushing family and friends away, that's always been a problem I've been trying to work on but they make it so hard to want to keep them close.
So any advice is appreciated.

Source: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/family-friends-relationships/87284-censorship-among-family-friends.html

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